Bridesmaid Thank You Gifts: Ideas They’ll Actually Keep
Huw Davies Cooke
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Prices checked on October 26, 2026. No affiliate links, nothing sponsored.
The best bridesmaid thank you gifts are personal and useful on the wedding day, such as a robe, a piece of jewelry she can wear that day, or a handwritten note. One wedding publisher’s research puts the average at $80 each. For a gift she will keep, a TheWeddingPainters gift card, from $25, goes towards a painting of a favorite photo. TheWeddingPainters is a marketplace of hand-picked live wedding painters, guest portrait artists and artists who paint from photos.
Your bridesmaids have given you months of time, patience and early mornings. A thank you gift is your chance to say so in a way they will remember. Below you will find what to give, how much to spend, when to give it, and one idea that is a little different: a single portrait of your bridal party, printed for each of them.
How much should you spend on bridesmaid thank you gifts?
There is no set amount. One wedding publisher’s 2022 survey of 452 respondents puts the average at $80 per person, with about 30% of couples spending under $50 and 12% spending $150 or more. Here is our own guidance:
A small gift: $25 to $50
A typical gift: $50 to $100
A keepsake, or a maid of honor gift: $100 to $250
Gifts do not have to be identical, but it is kind to keep the prices similar. For a wider look at what to spend on wedding gifts, see our guide to how much to spend on a wedding gift.
When should you give bridesmaid thank you gifts?
Most couples give bridesmaid thank you gifts at the rehearsal dinner, on the morning of the wedding or at a farewell brunch. Wearable gifts, such as jewelry, suit the rehearsal dinner, so your bridesmaids can wear them the next day. Gifts they will not wear can wait until a few days after the wedding, when things are calmer.
A gift they will keep: one illustration, a print for every bridesmaid
A single illustration of the bridal party, made from one photograph, can be printed for every bridesmaid, so everyone gets the same artwork and the cost is shared across the group. The same illustration can also become your thank you cards.
Price: from £355 for a bespoke portrait from your photo, with prices in pounds
Where to buy: Hannah on TheWeddingPainters, in London
Why it works: Hannah draws digital portraits from your photo, and the artwork can be printed up to 1 meter tall. Her package also includes a card design, so the same illustration can be your thank you cards. Her listing says it takes about 10 working days. She has a 5 out of 5 rating from 3 reviews. Ask her for a quote for your whole bridal party. Her prices are in pounds, so a dollar gift card cannot be used on her listing.
A painting for your maid of honor
Your maid of honor has done the most. A painting of a favorite photo of the two of you is a gift she will hang for years. It costs more than a typical bridesmaid gift, so it suits a maid of honor, a sister or a best friend.
Price: from $900 for an 11 by 14 inch canvas with two main figures
Where to buy: Averi on TheWeddingPainters, in Georgia
Why it works: Averi paints in acrylic, in a warm, rich style that is a little magical, and she has a 5 out of 5 rating from 6 reviews. She paints from a photograph you send her, and a painting usually takes two to four weeks plus shipping. A rush finish is available from $250, depending on your due date. Order at least six weeks before the wedding.
A luxury portrait commission
Price: from £3,000, in pounds
Where to buy: Rob on TheWeddingPainters, in Chorley, Lancashire
Why it works: Rob paints high-end portraits in oils and acrylics, a painting usually takes four to six weeks, and professional framing and courier delivery are included. He has a 5 out of 5 rating from 6 reviews. This is far above a typical bridesmaid budget, so it is for a very special gift. Ask him whether he can paint a bridal party or a maid of honor. His prices are in pounds, so a dollar gift card cannot be used on his listing.
A TheWeddingPainters gift card, for the bridesmaid who has everything
Price: from $25, and each card is worth up to $2,000
Where to buy: TheWeddingPainters gift card
Why it works: She chooses the artist and the photograph herself, perhaps from her own wedding or a favorite trip. A gift card can be sent straight away or on a date and time you pick. A $25 card will not cover a painting on its own, so add more than one card, or give it with another gift. Dollar gift cards go towards dollar listings, any balance stays on the card, and a card is valid for five years. A card does not reserve a date or an artist. You can also read our guide to gift cards, alone or as a group.
Other gifts they will love
A robe for getting ready
Price: $29
Where to buy: the Birdy Grey Kenny Robe, rated 4.8 out of 5 from 161 reviews on the brand’s own site
Why it works: Your bridesmaids will wear it for the hair, the makeup and the photographs, and it is a simple way to match. Keep the prices similar by giving everyone the same robe.
Jewelry she can wear on the day
Price: your choice
Where to buy: a jewelry store you trust, or an independent jeweler
Why it works: A small necklace or a pair of earrings that goes with her dress is something she can wear that day. Choose a simple style, and check the metal she wears.
A getting-ready treat
Price: your choice
Where to buy: a pharmacy, a department store or a local shop
Why it works: A small box with a hand cream, a lip balm and a face mask is a kind way to say thank you before a long day. It is also an easy gift to buy at the last minute.
A personalized tote bag
Price: your choice
Where to buy: a local print shop or an independent maker
Why it works: It holds everything they need for the day, and it is something they will use after it. Order a month ahead if it is personalized.
A handwritten note
Price: free
Why it works: A few honest lines can mean more than the gift. Write one thing she did that made the planning easier, and one thing you love about her.
Should the maid of honor get a different gift?
A maid of honor does not have to get a more expensive gift than the other bridesmaids. Many couples keep the main gift the same, then add a small extra for her, such as a personal letter or a painting of a favorite photo, to thank her for the extra work.
How far ahead should you order?
Order personalized gifts about a month before the wedding. Hannah’s listing says a portrait and card design takes about 10 working days, and printing and shipping take extra time. Averi paints in two to four weeks plus shipping, so order a painting at least six weeks before the wedding. A TheWeddingPainters gift card can arrive on the day, so it is a good choice if time is short. Read our guide to how to commission a wedding portrait painting for the full process.
What if the wedding is only a few weeks away?
Give a gift you can have quickly, such as a handwritten note, a robe or a piece of jewelry from a store. Add a TheWeddingPainters gift card for a keepsake later. A gift card can be sent straight away or on the day.
Giving bridesmaid thank you gifts in the UK
In the UK, one gift retailer’s guide says most people spend between £10 and £30 per bridesmaid. Pound gift cards go towards pound listings, so you can use one on Hannah’s listing. You can also browse the artists on our UK paintings from photos page.
How did we work out these amounts?
The only survey figures are one wedding publisher’s 2022 research of 452 respondents, and we say so. Everything else is our own guidance, and it is labelled. Artist prices are the prices on their listings. We checked everything on October 26, 2026, and we review it every year.
Frequently asked questions
What are good thank you gifts for bridesmaids?
Good thank you gifts for bridesmaids are personal and useful on the wedding day, such as a robe for getting ready, jewelry she can wear that day, or a handwritten note. For a gift she will keep, add an illustration of the bridal party or a TheWeddingPainters gift card towards a painting.
How much should you spend on bridesmaid thank you gifts?
There is no set amount. One wedding publisher’s 2022 survey of 452 respondents puts the average at $80 per person. Our guidance is $25 to $50 for a small gift, $50 to $100 for a typical gift, and $100 to $250 for a keepsake or a maid of honor gift.
When do you give bridesmaid thank you gifts?
Most couples give bridesmaid thank you gifts at the rehearsal dinner, on the morning of the wedding or at a farewell brunch. Wearable gifts suit the rehearsal dinner, and gifts she does not wear can wait until a few days after the wedding.
Do bridesmaid gifts have to be identical?
No. Bridesmaid gifts do not have to be identical, but it is kind to keep the prices similar. A matching robe or an illustration for everyone is a simple way to keep it fair.
Should the maid of honor get a bigger gift?
A maid of honor does not have to get a more expensive gift than the other bridesmaids. Many couples add a small extra for her, such as a personal letter or a painting of a favorite photo, to thank her for the extra work.
What is a thoughtful bridesmaid gift that is not jewelry?
An illustration of the bridal party printed for each bridesmaid, a robe for getting ready, a handwritten note, or a painting of a favorite photo for the maid of honor are all thoughtful gifts that are not jewelry. A TheWeddingPainters gift card also lets her choose an artist.
How far ahead should you order bridesmaid gifts?
Order personalized gifts about a month before the wedding. Hannah’s listing says a portrait and card design takes about 10 working days, and Averi paints in two to four weeks plus shipping, so order a painting at least six weeks before the wedding.
What if the wedding is only a few weeks away?
Give a gift you can have quickly, such as a handwritten note, a robe or a piece of jewelry from a store, and add a TheWeddingPainters gift card for a keepsake later. A gift card can be sent straight away or on the day.